In the past, women mainly sought sex out as a form of security. We not only talk about our sexual successes, but also our failures, fears, and confusions. I wrote this article in and my beliefs have shifted a lot since I wrote it. Women need to feel sexually desired. It starts with a child to its parents. Sure, there is the physical pleasure, but there is a deeper need that is being satisfied. The essay was originally published at MenAlive.
Women feel disappointed and resentful; they are suffering.
The One Thing Men Want More Than Sex Is The One Thing Women Find It Hard to Give
Sex and Our Psychological Needs. One could even argue that there are psychological and health benefits from not having sex. But when love has not been given the time it takes to grow for the woman, she often labels the man a poor lover and the relationship is stillborn in the bedroom. Getting taken into her body gives us a sense of peace and homecoming that goes way beyond simple sexual pleasure. She wants to trust your strength.