Not to sound crude ladies, but if you have to ask the question or query it in the heat of the moment, the chances are you probably aren't having one. Of course everyone is different, but I'd say that in general women need to ask for what they want and men need to listen and respond to that. A woman who hasn't had an orgasm isn't faulty, ill or 'wrong'. She had never had one before, and has finally had one with her finished product but has yet to have an orgasm through sexual intercourse with a man. But here are six essential steps you can proactively take toward your orgasm.
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Experts Reveal Everything You Need To Know About Orgasms
Some women orgasm during sex, some don't. Not to sound crude ladies, but if you have to ask the question or query it in the heat of the moment, the chances are you probably aren't having one. Above all else, remember that your body knows exactly what to do, and all evidence indicates that it can learn with sufficient practice. An incredible amount of nerve and muscle tension builds up in the genitals, pelvis, buttocks, and thighs — until your body involuntarily releases it all at once in a series of intensely pleasurable waves, aka your orgasm. It wasn't until a girly night 8 or 9 years ago that we were talking about it. We could bombard you with stats about how many women in Britain have never had an orgasm or find it difficult to have one, but why start on a bum note? Email your sex and relationships queries in confidence to: