My faith means I cannot seek sexual relief elsewhere. The guy may chase but the woman has to want to be caught. We are to follow the bible. God left the man in charge. Sex in a covenant relationship is wonderful and should only get better the longer we are married. Sounds like too many women are bitter, unforgiving, more concerned about themselves than giving. I ran a sex site for over 7 years.
On a personal note… I was married for 3 years and hated, hated, hated being married.
Mother and her son sleep naked in the same bed
This idea that marriage is some state of being that has qualities to it endowed by a creator or through some ceremony or rite is limiting. So yes, it is on the man as per Gods word. For trying to force him to back off a job bid. You really want to exit? What the heck are you saying?