Did this article help you? Ask them if they want to have children one day, or if they fancy a night out at that new leather club in Vauxhall. Some people may make that choice, but it's a denial of their desires and therefore nature that instinctively loves without worrying about the gender of the people they're falling for. The more frustrating implication to me in the whole "bisexuals can just pick a side" thing is that if I did only date one gender, I suddenly wouldn't be bi anymore? They've been hurt so much by how people think about what they are. A bisexual who's in a monogamous relationship has, for the moment at least, made a choice to stay in a relationship with a person of some gender, excluding all others.
After all, if you like men and women where will it end?
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